Category: Dating and Relationships
Hi, I poste d this to the Sex Adicts Anonymous board a while back but among all the attempts to get off it probably wasn't noticed. Anyway I noticed especially on that particular board that a lot of requests from bi girls to bi girls to please them sexually (over the internet) and answers to those requests. Now I'm by no means against this sort of stuff I just find it odd that it's sort of viewed as gross when other men act so blatantly sexual (even thugh at the same time they are expected to) but when women do it and answer each other's requests it's loked on as sexy. I don't want to discredit same-sex or even bisexual relationships but I wonder if a lot of this teasing stuff like that is only displayed so publicly to tease us guys. I know this sonds like something a jerk would say (You evil woman just want to tease us rah rah, I'm going to punch some guy and then play some football) but this is me honesty wondring. I wonder if women will be as honest as I have trid to be.
James
I don't think women who engage in this are doing it to tease the men around them; at least I wouldn't be if I were engaged in such activity with another female. I think it's simply the same dance that hederal sexual people play; whether on the net or face to face.
Hmmmm. It's something to think about. I wouldn't even try to guess about internet people, because let's face it, we don't really know that much. People flirting on message-boards might be serious, might not care in the slightest, might be horny blokes pretending to be bi-sexual girls because they think it's hot. Who knows. I do think girls are generally allowed to be more free about public flirting than guys. Unfortunately there does still seem to be a social stigma about guy-on-guy, but there's double-standards for you. But in real life, I think it definitely happens. There's chicks who will smooch and snuggle with their friends who they have no interest in, because it's a sure way to get the attention of every guy in the club/pub/whatever. Similarly, women's magazines advise girls to tell their men they're interested in a threesom with another woman, even if they have no intention of ever following through with it, just to keep his interest. Personally, I think it's mannipulative and cheap, and it definitely happens, but it's not a reason to be suspicious of all public flirting, just cautious. There's a lot of perfectly honest people out there too.
i personally wouldn't do that sort of thing, cuz it's just not me. i value myself more than to sleep with every girl i'm in a relationship with. however, if others find that hot, more power to them!
I am a bisexual woman and am proud of it, and the people who know me can vouch for my bisexuality, if people have a problem with it, then too bad for them, cuz I wouldn't change for anyone unless they were just that, damn good...
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